Msgr. Rossetti

Response: Reflecting on the natural law, it does indeed seem that parents have authority over their children and thus can command demons to leave. In the midst of a crisis, this may indeed be necessary. For example, if a child is manifesting an evil spirit, the parent can indeed command the demons to leave. Of course, normal precautions should be taken to keep the child and all safe. Moreover, the child should be checked for psychological issues as well. However, grandparents and godparents do not have this same authority, although they have a special relationship which should not be ignored. They have a relationship of love and mentoring which is very important. Moreover, they should keep these children in regular prayer; their prayers are efficacious. But grandparents and godparents do not have the specific authority from the natural law which allows a parent to command demons to leave their children. They can, and should, use what we call "deprecatory" prayers. They can ask God/Jesus (the BVM and saints to intercede) to cast out the demons. However, I would add that, excepting a crisis, I would not even recommend that parents regularly command demons to leave their children. My experience suggests that it is normally not prudent for them to address and command demons directly and really not necessary. I recommend they, too, use deprecatory prayers and ask God to cast out the evil spirits. Do not underestimate the power and importance of the prayers of parents, godparents and grandparents. You all have a special bond with these children and thus your prayers are particularly efficacious.